4/24/09Upward, Side ward, push, pull, whatever you do, there are just some things that won't budge. Like a mountain obstructing your way to your destination, there are obstacles that one can't just dig a hole into it to go through it. One has to accept the fact that there are just some things that can't be changed no matter what you do. There is however a way of solving this enigma, if one can't change the obstacle, one has to change the way one sees it. If we perceive a thing to be a problem then it IS a problem, however if we see it as an opportunity to grow and learn then it is of great advantage. What a big difference it makes from changing one's views -from a problem into a learning opportunity. Another example would be if one can't change a friend's attitude, one can merely change his view of his friend to better understand him. Changing one's perception is a valuable weapon in adapting to life's changes and harsh realities. Problems are always there, it is just a matter of thinking that they really are problems or if they are something else. It's your choice :)
wow.. enigma! :D
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